When I enrolled myself in casas, I learned things that I was not expecting; about first date, for instance. Having decided that someone would be a suitable marriage partner for you, you may contact the person and express a desire to know better. Your first date must not be a complicated matter even if you assume that there is a positive result. To help you decide if you really want to have a relationship to a certain guy or girl, you can arranged a group date to know him or her better. Keeping things somewhat informal helps ease some of the nervousness both might feel initially. By keeping off premature words of assurance, you can decrease the feelings of rejection if any of you have lost importance. Regardless of the type of date planned, show up on time, neatly, and appropriate dressed. Shows skills, a good conversationalist, and be active listener. A gentleman will follow his instincts especially in treating a lady in a good way. Appreciating what a man does for a lady must be considered and she should modestly cooperate. By treating each other with mutual respect, a couple can set a pattern for the future. A husband is commanded to honor his wife as the weaker vessel and the wife is to have a deep respect for her husband. Displays of affection, when performed as genuine expressions of endearment and not selfish passion, can be both clean and appropriate. Chasteness should be observed in a couple and they must be very careful that the way of showing their love for each other is not leading to immorality Logically, these expressions of affection should be done only when the relationship has reached a point where it has developed a mutual commitment and marriage seems imminent.